My husband was in an emotional affair. He would go out with a coworker for four hour breakfasts. Sometimes he was 6 or 7 hours late coming home from work and i knew he was with this female coworker for the majority of that time. When I asked to meet this woman and go along he said "no way." Obviously that is very inappropriate. What would be appropriate? If he had had breakfast (he works graveyard) with a coworker and it was an hour to an hour and a half once a week I wouldn't have been upset. If he invited me along and let me meet this woman I wouldn't be upset. The coworker he was meeting with was a pretty blonde. He has another female friend who weighs 300 pounds and he couldn't wait to introduce me to her and we all went out together. I am very suspicious of friends that I am not allowed to meet. I think opposite sex friends need to be friends of the marriage. I don't want to tell him he can never have female friends, but I don't want a repe at of what I went through with his ea. What are some guidelines to give him?
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