OK so some background...my wife had long denied her vibrator use until she was basically caught red handed. I had previously tried to make her comfortable that is was OK, I even told her I wanted to watch her etc. She is OK with this now and we have even used toys together. She also had admitted in the past (usually after a couple drinks) to thinking that watching porn together would be and other racy things "hot". Later she seemed less than receptive to these things.
We were recently discussing religion (after a couple glasses of wine) and she indicated one of the problems she had with Catholoisism is the catholic guilt thing. I should point out that she went to a catholic elementary school where you may know, teach with allot of guilt and shame. I think this impacts women particularly hard especially as it relates to sex.
I have since asked her how she thinks that catholic guilt has effected her and she now says it is not important. It would seem that she is somehow effected by this but, seems to be ironically inhibited to discuss how the guilt is effecting her or in what respects.
We were recently discussing religion (after a couple glasses of wine) and she indicated one of the problems she had with Catholoisism is the catholic guilt thing. I should point out that she went to a catholic elementary school where you may know, teach with allot of guilt and shame. I think this impacts women particularly hard especially as it relates to sex.
I have since asked her how she thinks that catholic guilt has effected her and she now says it is not important. It would seem that she is somehow effected by this but, seems to be ironically inhibited to discuss how the guilt is effecting her or in what respects.
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