My husband and I have been together for a total of 26 years and married for 18 We have 3 children 15, 12 & 10. Eight years ago my husband was involved with internet sexting and meeting people. Nothing sexual ever happen in person. I forgave him and moved on with our relationship. Now eight years later he called me on a Friday afternoon told me that he was going to work a double. This was the night before we were leaving for a family vacation. We left the next day for our vacation. He spent most of his time on his phone. A few days in we get a call from out credit card company saying that someone had used our card that they had cancelled it. So I logged on to the account to check out what charges were made. As I am looking I see a charge for a restaurant on the same night he was working a double and them a little further down I notice a charge for Match.com membership. Totally shocked he would charge to a card that I pay. So when he was sleeping the next morning I took his phone and low and behold I got on his match.com he was chatting with tons of people but one girl he had been chatting morning, noon and night. Feelings had developed between the 2. He even sent pics of our kids. They had not met yet but were planning on it when he had returned from vacation. I also found the girl he had gone to dinner with. As I researched further I found out he was also on Tinder. He had a few nights of super dirty talk with a girl on tinder. They had exchanged naked pics of each other. Finally I confronted him and he could only admit because I had so much evidence there was no denying. He claims our marriage was going to hell which yes he was not willing to change his behavior (he is a drinker and is disrespectful to me in front of the kids) so I backed away and just made sure the kids, house and bills were taken care of and he sat in his own little world and did what he wanted. Now that this has happened he is begging for forgiveness. I am so hurt by all this. I really feel we should separate. I know this will bother me and always have a negative effect on our marriage.
Put the internet to work for you.
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