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I am 28, have a 22 month old son, been married 5 yrs and together 12 yrs. I was a virgin when I met my husband and not ready for sex. But I was looking for acceptance so I did it. I didn't have an orgasm for the 1st yr we were together. but even after I figured out I could orgasm our sex life never really got better. I give myself orgasms when we have sex because it takes a lot of work, and I do it better. I don't feel any simulation with penetration (rarely yes). I get horny for actual sex like twice a year. I do watch porn sometimes. I get more satisfaction from masterbation than sex.
I have thought it might be psychological. I don't really like my body and never have. Although I have been very fit in the past. Now, semi-fit. Ido better with the lights off. I don't really feel comfortable being touched or looked at. Not that my husband tries that hard. Getting my crotch fondled randomly isn't my idea of romance. Neither of us are romantic people ,but maybe it's what I need.
I have many girl friends with great sex drives. They want sex every day. I don't understand! Why can't I be that way?
I'm sure there are details I've left out. If you have advice or experience, help me out! I'll answer any questions.
I am 28, have a 22 month old son, been married 5 yrs and together 12 yrs. I was a virgin when I met my husband and not ready for sex. But I was looking for acceptance so I did it. I didn't have an orgasm for the 1st yr we were together. but even after I figured out I could orgasm our sex life never really got better. I give myself orgasms when we have sex because it takes a lot of work, and I do it better. I don't feel any simulation with penetration (rarely yes). I get horny for actual sex like twice a year. I do watch porn sometimes. I get more satisfaction from masterbation than sex.
I have thought it might be psychological. I don't really like my body and never have. Although I have been very fit in the past. Now, semi-fit. Ido better with the lights off. I don't really feel comfortable being touched or looked at. Not that my husband tries that hard. Getting my crotch fondled randomly isn't my idea of romance. Neither of us are romantic people ,but maybe it's what I need.
I have many girl friends with great sex drives. They want sex every day. I don't understand! Why can't I be that way?
I'm sure there are details I've left out. If you have advice or experience, help me out! I'll answer any questions.
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