My DH and I got into an argument about feelings. I told him I felt we need to express our feelings being back together and it being a big part of why we split in the first place. He proceeded to tell me that "his feelings are his feelings and married or not he does not have to share unless he wants to". I will say he has been sharing his feelings more but usually only when I piss him off. Feels to me he's hiding something but that could be just the past creeping in my head. The reason for the fight is he says I pry to understand his feelings and he's not allowed to be his own person. Is he right? Am I totally in the wrong here?
A little background... We had been separated for 4 yrs and with being separated he started a relationship with a childhood crush which ended up in another child. He left to come home after child turned 2, to fix our marriage and bc he said he didn't want to lose me or our 4 kids. A part of me knows he still "loves" this friend. He also said it was nothing more than a crush n rush. I just want him to be open with me but he is still so guarded. We split bc he reconnected with said friend and feelings came back and he and I didn't get along very well, as well as sex life gone after all the kids.
A little background... We had been separated for 4 yrs and with being separated he started a relationship with a childhood crush which ended up in another child. He left to come home after child turned 2, to fix our marriage and bc he said he didn't want to lose me or our 4 kids. A part of me knows he still "loves" this friend. He also said it was nothing more than a crush n rush. I just want him to be open with me but he is still so guarded. We split bc he reconnected with said friend and feelings came back and he and I didn't get along very well, as well as sex life gone after all the kids.
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