Hi All, thanks in advance for your honest replies and no judgement of my situation.
My husband and I have been together for 10yrs + and married for just over 5 now. We have a son that is 2.5yrs old.
I could always see that he was a flirt. Always very friendly to any girl that came his way. I always made it clear that I hated that. Just made me feel not very special. Always had a thing for still texting his ex's and became good friends with the girl at the corner store. Sent her 20 texts a day (his phone is on my plan so I can see). We used to get into huge arguments how he contacted these girls. Said that he hides it from me cos I get angry. So it's my fault.
He also has a thing for porn. Yes, he's a normal guy and all, but still does not make me feel special. Yes, I have low self esteem, but flirting with others does not help.
Fast forward until about two years ago. So one day he used my laptop and I could see how he was chatting with girls on adult websites. Profile and all. Seeking discreet encounters. On a couple occasions he nearly met with someone.
Not long ago I walked in on him wanking to a profile and he was like OH! He came to me and said that he thinks he has a problem and that maybe we should go to counseling for it. We had a big talk about it all and he said that I'm still as special to him as when he met me. Which was very important to me as he wants child number 2.
He does not have facebook because of all this and now has Linked in, but doesn't know I know. He added an ex of about 15 yrs + ago (from high school). I guessed his password and can see what is going on. They messaged about whats happened over the last 15yrs. She got married, 2 children and now divorced - her husband cheated on her. They met once for coffee. He asked her to our house for coffee, but she declined as she thought he wanted more and said it wasn't fair to me. So no more meetings. Just chat.
Now out of the blue she writes to him she has a proposition for him. Once in a lifetime on a certain date (as he lives interstate). Her bf and her have a very open kinky sexual relationship. Her bf is willing to drop her off (at my house) and they do it while her bf waits outside. She also offered that he could watch or do a threesome.
So.... my husband replies YES and asks the rules. She says no kissing, max 1hr and she will leave as soon as he cums and it may happen every few months when the bf is down here.
So he would have to find a sitter for our son (his sister). So knowing that I know what would you do, I know the date, time and place.
Thanks if you made it to the end :)
My husband and I have been together for 10yrs + and married for just over 5 now. We have a son that is 2.5yrs old.
I could always see that he was a flirt. Always very friendly to any girl that came his way. I always made it clear that I hated that. Just made me feel not very special. Always had a thing for still texting his ex's and became good friends with the girl at the corner store. Sent her 20 texts a day (his phone is on my plan so I can see). We used to get into huge arguments how he contacted these girls. Said that he hides it from me cos I get angry. So it's my fault.
He also has a thing for porn. Yes, he's a normal guy and all, but still does not make me feel special. Yes, I have low self esteem, but flirting with others does not help.
Fast forward until about two years ago. So one day he used my laptop and I could see how he was chatting with girls on adult websites. Profile and all. Seeking discreet encounters. On a couple occasions he nearly met with someone.
Not long ago I walked in on him wanking to a profile and he was like OH! He came to me and said that he thinks he has a problem and that maybe we should go to counseling for it. We had a big talk about it all and he said that I'm still as special to him as when he met me. Which was very important to me as he wants child number 2.
He does not have facebook because of all this and now has Linked in, but doesn't know I know. He added an ex of about 15 yrs + ago (from high school). I guessed his password and can see what is going on. They messaged about whats happened over the last 15yrs. She got married, 2 children and now divorced - her husband cheated on her. They met once for coffee. He asked her to our house for coffee, but she declined as she thought he wanted more and said it wasn't fair to me. So no more meetings. Just chat.
Now out of the blue she writes to him she has a proposition for him. Once in a lifetime on a certain date (as he lives interstate). Her bf and her have a very open kinky sexual relationship. Her bf is willing to drop her off (at my house) and they do it while her bf waits outside. She also offered that he could watch or do a threesome.
So.... my husband replies YES and asks the rules. She says no kissing, max 1hr and she will leave as soon as he cums and it may happen every few months when the bf is down here.
So he would have to find a sitter for our son (his sister). So knowing that I know what would you do, I know the date, time and place.
Thanks if you made it to the end :)
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