Kissing annoys me and does nothing for me. I do find my boyfriend attractive but he's in his late 30's and had a lot of relationships, about 30 in his life he said, I have kissed him but all the time I'm thinking of all the things I could catch from all the oral sex he has had I.e oral herpes (as he gets cold sores) and cancer causing oral hpv which could (according to some studies) be transferred by kissing and men who have a lot of partners are significantly more likely to have it. I always worry about it even though I've kissed him loads. I've spoke to him about not kissing when he has a cold sore and he said as long as it's scabbed over it's fine( though on the nhs site it says completely healed). He said that they are no big deal anyway, that partners should share each other's ailments as long as it's not something like hiv. I just think though that I've kept myself clean all my life and don't get cold sores so the ailment sharing would be all one way lol. I know that I might be giving him things I don't know like colds etc but yea my problem is worrying about catching things.
Does anyone worry about this when kissing and sex (which I use protection for)? Part of me thinks I'm being over the top but the other part of me thinks where his mouth has been over his lifetime with all the partners he has had.
Put the internet to work for you.
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