I've been married for almost 2 years and have been separated since 6 weeks ago, no child yet fortunately. 2 months before i left he started an EA with his colleague, they are both doctors and spent a lot of hours together. He had said that they are just friends but lied to me again and again about why he was always home late, also became super snappy about everything i did. Blameshifting, gaslighting, all kind of lies, i've got it from him for 2 months. Finally i moved out, i block his number and email just to make it easier for me to clear my mind
The new man and husband know each other, graduated from same university but different major. We met when i became an intern at his office, i was already married but i knew the proper boundaries so nothing happened. He's a divorced guy, his ex wife was apparently a remorseless cheater. I told him everything about the EA, we got closer and have been dating for 1 month
Husband figured out when he saw the new guy drove my car. Somehow he got my new address (i hadn't told him)and asked how could i did that to him ? He was very emotional, ranging between fury and almost cry but i kept myself calm. I was and still am until now, confused. He didn't give a rat's ass about me, i was invisible but suddenly he cared ?? He told me he had sent me emails,texts and left voicemails to ask for forgiveness. Well i blocked all of his ids so i had no idea. When he left my apartment he looked broken, i genuinely sorry that he felt that way but still mind boggled about his reaction. I mean i started to date AFTER i left not during our relationship like he did, this is not cheating.
Should i feel guilty ? What should i do ?
The new man and husband know each other, graduated from same university but different major. We met when i became an intern at his office, i was already married but i knew the proper boundaries so nothing happened. He's a divorced guy, his ex wife was apparently a remorseless cheater. I told him everything about the EA, we got closer and have been dating for 1 month
Husband figured out when he saw the new guy drove my car. Somehow he got my new address (i hadn't told him)and asked how could i did that to him ? He was very emotional, ranging between fury and almost cry but i kept myself calm. I was and still am until now, confused. He didn't give a rat's ass about me, i was invisible but suddenly he cared ?? He told me he had sent me emails,texts and left voicemails to ask for forgiveness. Well i blocked all of his ids so i had no idea. When he left my apartment he looked broken, i genuinely sorry that he felt that way but still mind boggled about his reaction. I mean i started to date AFTER i left not during our relationship like he did, this is not cheating.
Should i feel guilty ? What should i do ?
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