Separated 15 months (separate houses/shared custody private arrangement)
W left. Insecurities both parties.
No known affairs, gambling, addictions etc
H (me) engages professional services from week 1.
Intent to reconcile on the table from both.
Months later: dating, sleepovers, couples counseling etc takes place
6 month mark: W offers suggestion of renewing vows
10 month mark: W suggest possible moving back in together 2015 and buying a new house for a new start
W and her bio son (my adopted) visit her ex husband so son can meet him for first time in his recollection
Dating and counseling ceases. Son advises that H is now known to him by first name.
11 month mark: W emails H requesting divorce stating it is because H wants it (untrue)
Communication dissolves to email only and mainly about kids
13 month mark: W physically abuses H in front of kids. W calls police and admits. (No apology to date)
14 month mark: son refers to H as "Dad"
15 month mark: W enters family home (H residence) when H is out and does housework and drops off dinner etc on different days.
W expresses face to face that she is feeling ignored by H.
W has now put up family photo in her place of whole family (including H)
H reaches out via email offering to meet for a coffee or a walk to discuss the feeling of ignored, acts of service and gift giving. W ignores offer.
NB. No legal correspondence received for entire duration
H not interested in filing. H engaged with kids, professional help and absorbing activities
Help please.
W left. Insecurities both parties.
No known affairs, gambling, addictions etc
H (me) engages professional services from week 1.
Intent to reconcile on the table from both.
Months later: dating, sleepovers, couples counseling etc takes place
6 month mark: W offers suggestion of renewing vows
10 month mark: W suggest possible moving back in together 2015 and buying a new house for a new start
W and her bio son (my adopted) visit her ex husband so son can meet him for first time in his recollection
Dating and counseling ceases. Son advises that H is now known to him by first name.
11 month mark: W emails H requesting divorce stating it is because H wants it (untrue)
Communication dissolves to email only and mainly about kids
13 month mark: W physically abuses H in front of kids. W calls police and admits. (No apology to date)
14 month mark: son refers to H as "Dad"
15 month mark: W enters family home (H residence) when H is out and does housework and drops off dinner etc on different days.
W expresses face to face that she is feeling ignored by H.
W has now put up family photo in her place of whole family (including H)
H reaches out via email offering to meet for a coffee or a walk to discuss the feeling of ignored, acts of service and gift giving. W ignores offer.
NB. No legal correspondence received for entire duration
H not interested in filing. H engaged with kids, professional help and absorbing activities
Help please.
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