Hey All,
Proud is back! Without going into too much detail about why the break up happened, I am now single after being with my ex girlfriend for the last two years, of which we lived together for 8 months. I've always had this fear of being alone, maybe it's because I seek validation and self worth in others, maybe I'm a little too codependent. I had the same fear with my marriage, especially when it ended up in a divorce.
I'm living with my parents now until I can get back on my feet (also lost my job a month ago). I'm further away from my kids now. I feel isolated. This year I will turn 38 and I've never lived on my own at all. Always with roommates, or women.
I have a paralyzing fear of being alone, especially once I get my own place.
For those that know me I trust your opinions, for those that don't I welcome them. How can I turn this negative situation into a positive? How can I stop romanticizing my ex girlfriend, and see the relationship for the whole that it was both good and bad?
please help as I'm really struggling right now. Been broken up for three weeks, just moved out last Friday.
Proud is back! Without going into too much detail about why the break up happened, I am now single after being with my ex girlfriend for the last two years, of which we lived together for 8 months. I've always had this fear of being alone, maybe it's because I seek validation and self worth in others, maybe I'm a little too codependent. I had the same fear with my marriage, especially when it ended up in a divorce.
I'm living with my parents now until I can get back on my feet (also lost my job a month ago). I'm further away from my kids now. I feel isolated. This year I will turn 38 and I've never lived on my own at all. Always with roommates, or women.
I have a paralyzing fear of being alone, especially once I get my own place.
For those that know me I trust your opinions, for those that don't I welcome them. How can I turn this negative situation into a positive? How can I stop romanticizing my ex girlfriend, and see the relationship for the whole that it was both good and bad?
please help as I'm really struggling right now. Been broken up for three weeks, just moved out last Friday.
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