This is a self description; the problem is I really don't like it on either counts. I've been single all my life and as much as I tell myself "I like being single. It keeps things simple" I find myself feeling kind of alone sometimes. I've not exactly got guys banging down my door; I'd say I'm average looking, maybe slightly above occasionally, and I do mean occasionally. I think I'm nice, its just my communication skills leave something to be desired. But I digress, I did have a crush on a guy for a bit; we were flirting online. But then we met up a couple of times and I just lost interest (and no it wasn't his looks; I already knew how he looked. There just wasn't much chemistry I guess). It was at this point I concluded I have high standards. What am I supposed to do? I'd lower them if I could but I can't force interest. And I simply don't think its fair on either party to get with guys you're not interested in. I know I sound so princessy right now but its not that I deserve high standards, its that I don't see the point in settling (that is if another guy even looked my way) when like I said both parties would wind up unhappy. Please help.
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