Dear all,
My gf recently broke up with me a month ago and i have been trying to get back and regretfully begging so much that i look and basically said that i am weak and vulnerable and cant be happy without you. I know this is the biggest mistake but didnt realise till after so please dont go over this point.
At first she wanted to see me to see if we can get back in a relationship together or at least say our good byes face to face as we ended it on the phone. However, this was after a few days she told me shes been sleepinbg around with this guy which hurt me as it was only a week after the 2 year relationship break up. So i missed my ticket because i just felt i would break up inside when i see her and wont be able to handle it which will blow that last day of impression. She got annoyed so i booked another ticket the week after which i didnt go to which got her really annoyed and from her wanting to see if i have changed as aperson and consider to get back, she went stone cold and said she would never want to get back and everything and i told her about my emotions going haywire so i said give me one more chnace to go and just see you for the day. She said there is no point because i defo do not want to get back with you or even see you and please dont talk to me.
However the day after i told her i know we broke up for good, but atleast lets have a good day and say good bye face to face which is what we both deserve after this long relationship and she agreed so i am going there this week. Please note that i was allowed ot stay over the weeks before to spend more time but she doesnt allow me now an i have to go back on the same day and i think she is doing all this so i can shut up and leave her alone.
I was wondering from your opinions, if i could keep it cool and surprise her when i see her this weekend and act happy and strong and that ive moved on like her and not argue or talk about this past month and talk about only the good moments and end it by saying good bye and all the best and go no contact after that, will i redeem my dignity and respect and will there be a possibility that she would come back as she alreeady said she wanted to give it a try a few weeks ago but now shes saying definitely doesnt want to get back but will this good say being spent together and going no contact after that, give a good last impression of me in her head and have any chances of her wanting to get back? I will aso get a rose as i never did in the relationship and she always wanted one and say that this was because i promised you a rose but never had the chnace to give it you the way i wanted to. So, imn hoping that the rose will also add to her thinking baout me after me going no con tact.
All opinions are appreciated and will give you the rating thing or thumbs up or whatever the studentroom members like (but just tell me how to do it). Thank you
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