I am a 33 year old male. I have been with my "current" wife for 14 years. Married to her for 8 years. She has recently moved out of my house and in with her parents. Her excuse was that she was lonely and I didn't pay enough attention to her and my son. Rewind to the beginning. We married out of college. Both have teaching degrees. We couldn't find any jobs so I offered to be the workhorse for her and my son until she found a "career". I work in a dirty factory and make decent money. Enough that we were able to keep her home. Due to the agreement we made, I was working a lot of overtime so that she could afford to buy all the things she wanted. It has been fun and games for her and my son while I have most likely scraped 10 years off my overall lifespan working in this hell hole to provide for her. I'm not perfect but I tried. She relapsed on opiates less than 2 years ago draining all accounts and completely ignoring everyone around her. I got her out of that and got her help. She's gotten in trouble shoplifting. I got her out of that. Like I told my lawyer, she couldn't get a slurpie without me. Currently, she has a restraining order on me saying I beat her up even though I have a black eye and she has my son, who is NOT on the restraint order. The guy she's with is almost 20 years older than she is. They met in AA. he has been feeding her information on how to go about this considering he has been divorced a few times to my knowledge. ANYHOW I am to the point where I have no idea what to do or think. After reading a post on her about "how to know if your spouse is cheating" I had to register and let it out. The article I wrote was MY SITUATION. Her not knowing what she wants (marriage or no; while still seeing her sugar daddy), her on the fence about everything, she's never around, won't talk to me, the whole deal. It was almost scary how my situation relates. I have cut her off in just about every way possible. I have on e of the best lawyers in town and me being a decent human being, know just about everyone of importance in this town. I spoke with the police officer on his private cell phone immediately after she accused me of beating her up. Needless to say no one was arrested. I am trying to keep a level head about the situation for my son who I am very worried for. She has him around a man she hasn't known for 2 months? Any and ALL advice is more than welcome. I have given up everyone for this woman and have been treated as though I never did anything for her. She's planning on taking everything including my son. What do I do??
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