For a little while I've felt taken a back by the fact my boyfriend won't go down on me. In all my previous relationships I haven't even had to ask, my exes wanted to satisfy me/ explore my body. I have asked, begged attempted to barter you name it in order for my current boyfriend to do this. He says 'maybe one day' but one day never seems to come. Yesterday, I discovered that it wasn't just me...that despite being in his twenties and having many girlfriends before me, he has never gone down on a girl. Apparently, I am the first one to have a problem with it.
What can I do in this situation? Is this a dealbreaker? Additional info: He is very deflective when I try and speak to him and get to the bottom of his reluctance. He has no problem having sex with me, but again doesn't even want to finger me...I've tried guiding his hand a few times and he responds by having sex instead. He is also pretty demanding when it comes to blowjobs and I have pointed out to him, several times, this comes across as pretty selfish that he expects to receive but not give.
I am worried this selfishness inside the bedroom will translate outside the bedroom. Although, currently I would say he is very lovely and not selfish outside the bedroom. Thoughts?
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