I would like to ask what your opinions are about not wanting children and pressures you face from all around you. Do you all want to have children? How do you put an end to this pressure over something that is so personal and private? What is the obsession with children? Are people so stupid that they don't see that they are acting like robots, wanting things that has been programmed into their genes.
It is quite interesting to witness this phenomenon. Everyone in the world seems to be hooked onto the idea of having children, and anyone that dares decide to break the status quo of their culture and society, is persecuted for not fitting into their norms. It's almost seen like a crime not to have children. There is definitely mind-blowing prejudice and preconception against people who don't want to have children. Why?
I've heard all the explanations. I am not stupid. I think what is stupid is to have children for the sake of people just shutting up about it once and for all. I've been pressured so much, especially by parents that they don't care about my feelings at all. I quite frankly have come to the conclusion that this is an unhealthy obsession. And if a child was to be born, perhaps so much obsession would lead to so many other problems with such narcissistic individuals.
I think the best thing would be to just tell everyone that there is a biological problem, and nothing can be done anyway. So everyone just backs off. Has anyone tried this? Does this work?
And no, I no longer think honesty works with people. Especially narcissistic people who have caused me so much misery growing up, and who don't care how I feel.
It is quite interesting to witness this phenomenon. Everyone in the world seems to be hooked onto the idea of having children, and anyone that dares decide to break the status quo of their culture and society, is persecuted for not fitting into their norms. It's almost seen like a crime not to have children. There is definitely mind-blowing prejudice and preconception against people who don't want to have children. Why?
I've heard all the explanations. I am not stupid. I think what is stupid is to have children for the sake of people just shutting up about it once and for all. I've been pressured so much, especially by parents that they don't care about my feelings at all. I quite frankly have come to the conclusion that this is an unhealthy obsession. And if a child was to be born, perhaps so much obsession would lead to so many other problems with such narcissistic individuals.
I think the best thing would be to just tell everyone that there is a biological problem, and nothing can be done anyway. So everyone just backs off. Has anyone tried this? Does this work?
And no, I no longer think honesty works with people. Especially narcissistic people who have caused me so much misery growing up, and who don't care how I feel.
Put the internet to work for you.
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