just a warning, this is going to get very explicit! i apologize in advance.
alright, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months (just hit the mark yesterday) and I'm wondering if we are going too far into sexual things. hes 17 and I'm 16.
i don't have any religious views but he's a Christian. we haven't talked about sex or anything and I'm wondering if i should bring it up to ask about how far he's comfortable with, what definitely not okay etc etc. and mention my comfort zone too (I'm comfortable with most stuff except for oral sex and actual sex)
i don't know if that would be too scary. neither of us have any sexual experience so everything we've done has been out first time doing this kinda stuff. okay sorry for rambling on but basically we've done a ton of sexual things although it's been very gradual. we even didn't kiss for two months at first. but now when we make out we basically "grind" and kiss each others necks and now we've gotten to the point where he will actually suck on my breasts. he also rubs my inner thigh reaaaally close to you know where.
he's always asking if it's okay and I'm totally fine with everything we've done. he's always making sure he's not pressuring me.
i tried to do the inner thigh thing to him but my hand slipped and i accidentally touched him and was like "woah there!" and pulled my hand off. i felt really embarrassed cause i wasn't trying to do that and i was scared i went too far when he wasn't comfortable yet. he had to reassure me that it was fine and he didn't care.
okay i totally rambled a ton I'm sorry XD but I'm wondering a couple things; are we going to fast for being underage? should i talk to him about our comfort zones? is it strange he's really sexual even though he's Christian? thanks!
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