Hi all. I apologize in advance if this becomes a duplicate post as I lost my previous one. I recently discovered this site, and it seems to be full of good information and companionate people.
Here is my story: Just made 10 years married in June, 2 kids (9&7). Things certainly felt a little 'off' leading up to D Day, she was withdrawn, avoiding me a little, but nothing outrageous. She finally sits me down and gives me the 'I love you but I am not in love with you/ type talk, and says we should separate. I was floored, totally floored. Not that day, but soon after I pressed her on weather this was about another man, she denied but finally admitted that there is someone that she is talking to, but its not what I think and its not physical, etc.
Now, I still care for her, but I do not want to reconcile. Not that I think that would be possible even if I wanted to, as she is clear cut on splitting. Oh, and he is married. I have seen a lot of advice on here about telling the other man's wife. I don't know who he is, but I can certainly find out if I choose to take the initiative. In a case where you don't want to resolve the situation, is it better to let the affair come out on its own?
Thank you
Here is my story: Just made 10 years married in June, 2 kids (9&7). Things certainly felt a little 'off' leading up to D Day, she was withdrawn, avoiding me a little, but nothing outrageous. She finally sits me down and gives me the 'I love you but I am not in love with you/ type talk, and says we should separate. I was floored, totally floored. Not that day, but soon after I pressed her on weather this was about another man, she denied but finally admitted that there is someone that she is talking to, but its not what I think and its not physical, etc.
Now, I still care for her, but I do not want to reconcile. Not that I think that would be possible even if I wanted to, as she is clear cut on splitting. Oh, and he is married. I have seen a lot of advice on here about telling the other man's wife. I don't know who he is, but I can certainly find out if I choose to take the initiative. In a case where you don't want to resolve the situation, is it better to let the affair come out on its own?
Thank you
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