If I saw this thread title about 3 months ago I would've said no straight away, however now I'm in this position I feel torn about what to do and whether it's the cowardly way...
So I've been with this guy/seeing this guy/in a relationship with this guy for about 6 months. We're long distance and live about 200 miles away, therefore only able to see each other weekends as we both have full time jobs and he works saturday mornings. It was quite full on at first (we met on holiday) and only after about a month we went on holiday again, and he met my parents and vice versa.
However we've never properly defined our relationship, and as we've only seen each other over weekends (about 6 weekends over the course of 6 months...) I've always been too scared to ask what we are, and he's never said it either, although he once called me his girlfriend but he was quite drunk at the time. Anyway, he's been really off since about 2 months ago and not messaging half as much, never asks to see me/says he misses me etc, its all one way and I make the effort to see him and he never visits me. I think he feels like we're stuck in a rut and its not working, but he even told me he never breaks up with girls and its always the girl who breaks up with him.
we've never skyped or spoken on the phone, it's always been Facebook messenger or text message. I think it's best for both of us if we end things and move on, as there really is no future and I think he's lost interest anyway. Would it be really unfair and disrespectful to end things over message? Or should I ring him / visit him? I do like him as a person and want to stay in touch (not sure if he'll feel the same way though)
Really appreciate any advice, and thanks for reading all of my rambling :)
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