Hi all,
This is my first time posting in this sort of forum, just looking for some advice or something going through the same sort of thing..
I have been married to my husband for 4 year now and been together for over 6, We have 2 daughter 3 and 2 yrs old and I have 2 boys from my first marriage....
I love my husband with all my heart but I feel emotionally alone in our marriage.. My husband finds it very hard to show his feeling.. Sometimes even very basic ones...
Our marriage has sure had a lot of ups and downs, what with my health not being to good.. and with having 4 kids in the house it sure can be testing...
Over the past few months we have been going through quite a rough patch.. I found out he was talking to an old sch friend ( female) and i took it really badly.. He hardly spoke to me , so how comes he was chatting to this lady all the time.. Anyway I found out about this and he really couldn't see the harm in it...
This opened a whole can of worms up and our feelings towards towards one another.. I found it hard to talk to him as I didnt seem to get anything back.. I even wrote a long email to him explaining how I felt and he just said he couldn't reply to it.. In my eyes i see it as he could reply to his old sch. friend but not his own wife...
He has said to me out straight that he finds it hard to express his feelings towards me.. He strongly believes he has alexithymia , I am not to sure..
Is there anyone else going through the same sort of thing, I just want him to open up to me and tell me his feelings..
I just want to stop feeling alone..
This is my first time posting in this sort of forum, just looking for some advice or something going through the same sort of thing..
I have been married to my husband for 4 year now and been together for over 6, We have 2 daughter 3 and 2 yrs old and I have 2 boys from my first marriage....
I love my husband with all my heart but I feel emotionally alone in our marriage.. My husband finds it very hard to show his feeling.. Sometimes even very basic ones...
Our marriage has sure had a lot of ups and downs, what with my health not being to good.. and with having 4 kids in the house it sure can be testing...
Over the past few months we have been going through quite a rough patch.. I found out he was talking to an old sch friend ( female) and i took it really badly.. He hardly spoke to me , so how comes he was chatting to this lady all the time.. Anyway I found out about this and he really couldn't see the harm in it...
This opened a whole can of worms up and our feelings towards towards one another.. I found it hard to talk to him as I didnt seem to get anything back.. I even wrote a long email to him explaining how I felt and he just said he couldn't reply to it.. In my eyes i see it as he could reply to his old sch. friend but not his own wife...
He has said to me out straight that he finds it hard to express his feelings towards me.. He strongly believes he has alexithymia , I am not to sure..
Is there anyone else going through the same sort of thing, I just want him to open up to me and tell me his feelings..
I just want to stop feeling alone..
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