Last night he randomly stopped after a while of pleasuring me, I asked if he was okay, and he said "you have no idea how hard it is to make you cum", and then "it's never taken this long before"
It's really upset me but i didn't let it show at the time.
And the more I think about it, I don't know whether the second thing was referring to me (although i'm pretty sure i've gone longer without climaxing before), or to his exes, which actually disgusts me as no loving boyfriend should compare you like that. Everyone's bodies are different, and i just feel really rubbish, and this pressure for next time as well now, even though I fully well know there shouldn't be at all.
I am incredibly shy talking about sexual things/problems/whatever irl, and have no idea how to bring this up today/this evening. At the time I assured him i was enjoying it, and then apologised i guess for 'taking too long', and it just makes me so angry thinking about how i reacted as well. URGH. Any advice??
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