Just need people to talk to outside of my marriage

Im sure other people have this problem. My wife and I have been together for almost 7yrs we have a 6 yr old boy and have been married for 2 and half 2yrs. Recently we have grown distant but still love each other very much. We have a lot of mutual friends and still go out as if we were best friends. Now my issue is because we share the same friends it is hard to get any real advise from them. Now we do share a guy friend that lives out of state that my wife talks to and and he does give her advise on what as men we are feeling. I do have to throw this in there a couple of months ago we were all together at a function and we all had way to many drinks. My wife can be flirty and that has never bothered me before. But this time she had kissed him and I realize this could be to intoxication. When I confronted her she barely remembered it and was very sorry it happend, so I forgave her and let it go.Now 2 weeks ago we went away to another function and he was th ere and got sick. Once again my wife and I had to much to drink and got separated. I could not find her for 2 hrs. Now my head is spinning and I start thinking she is with him. When I do find her I accuse her of sleeping with him. Come to find out she had gone out to the car and fell asleep. And all our friends confirmed our other friend was in his room alone all day throwing up. So after this blowup by me she does tell me that her and Jim are just friends and has only been talking because I have not been showing enough her enough affection at home and he is someone to talk to. Now I do believe her and now that we are talking I understand her needs a little better I belive we can get though this. I have seen the text between them and the FB messages so I know its just talk and nothing else. Now here lies the problem she says she only tals to him about our issues and not our more close friends because she does not want our friends thinking badly of me. so in return who does t hat leave me to talk to.? Just needed to be heard thank you

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