Hi, Does anyone suddenly experience a thought where you might disagree with your partners same ideas when it had been alright with you before, as a single person perhaps?
An example is housing- I really enjoy wishing about living in beautiful modern houses. I really enjoy looking at a housing area really develop. So that things can get better, is my mindset. I have a partner now, so these things will become reality in the future. However I feel uneasy about how they really like the modern houses etc. too.
Can anyone provide advice? My partner is from a different culture to me, so they value things like this (success) highly, where as I am more laid back! Maybe I feel insecure about it all and I tend to think there is an ulterior motive to most things about people. Then sometimes I am so naive with life! But I shouldn't be worried, however it is hard to shake the feeling. Please ask questions, if you are finding my rambling difficult to decipher!
Thanks :)
An example is housing- I really enjoy wishing about living in beautiful modern houses. I really enjoy looking at a housing area really develop. So that things can get better, is my mindset. I have a partner now, so these things will become reality in the future. However I feel uneasy about how they really like the modern houses etc. too.
Can anyone provide advice? My partner is from a different culture to me, so they value things like this (success) highly, where as I am more laid back! Maybe I feel insecure about it all and I tend to think there is an ulterior motive to most things about people. Then sometimes I am so naive with life! But I shouldn't be worried, however it is hard to shake the feeling. Please ask questions, if you are finding my rambling difficult to decipher!
Thanks :)
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