I am stay home mom, taking care of kids, cooking, washing,
our house doesn't need much repair, when hb home, mostly he does is sleep to 1030am, watch tv to 2am, get up to eat what I cook warm and nice, complaining I haven't given him enough time to do his bill, to do his exercise......
since our house doesn't need any repair, I expect him to add gas for my car which only happen once a month, wash my car which haven't happened yet even once in our years marriage....
recently I asked him to add gas for car, he refused, and told me" what about I die tomorrow? what can u do w. car and gas? u need to start to do these all by yourself."
I was too shocked to have any word, and I still don't know what to tell him that it's wrong to tell me that.
I said u want benefit of marriage but not duty of marriage.
so he told me he doesn't like to be told how he is, then he has disappeared for a over a month, tells me he is on biz trip, which we both it's a lie.
i am exhausted to taking care of babies all alone without anybody give me a hand, or feel he is home, he might give me a hand. but i don't feel i am wrong to tell him the truth of how he is.
our house doesn't need much repair, when hb home, mostly he does is sleep to 1030am, watch tv to 2am, get up to eat what I cook warm and nice, complaining I haven't given him enough time to do his bill, to do his exercise......
since our house doesn't need any repair, I expect him to add gas for my car which only happen once a month, wash my car which haven't happened yet even once in our years marriage....
recently I asked him to add gas for car, he refused, and told me" what about I die tomorrow? what can u do w. car and gas? u need to start to do these all by yourself."
I was too shocked to have any word, and I still don't know what to tell him that it's wrong to tell me that.
I said u want benefit of marriage but not duty of marriage.
so he told me he doesn't like to be told how he is, then he has disappeared for a over a month, tells me he is on biz trip, which we both it's a lie.
i am exhausted to taking care of babies all alone without anybody give me a hand, or feel he is home, he might give me a hand. but i don't feel i am wrong to tell him the truth of how he is.
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