I'm having doubts about my relationship this early on, I need help clarifying whether my doubts are valid or whether I'm just being insecure/paranoid. This is my first real relationship.
First off, I met my girlfriend about 2 months ago at the place we both work, which is currently the only place we can meet on a weekly basis atleast, and we've been dating for about 3 weeks now, so it's certainly early days. My problem is she doesn't communicate very well via texts, and lately I feel as though she is unbothered by how little we see eachother.
For example, I like to message her everyday. I'm quite sensitive admittedly, but very passionate/caring, so I make sure she knows I think about her. I'm not sure if this is coming off as clingy though, because she will rarely message me before I message her so I need someone to say if that's me trying too hard or her not trying enough.
I've also tried going out of my way to see her more, so last week I said we should get a coffee after our shifts had ended. Mine ended an hour before hers, so I stayed on overtime to work with her so we could come out together. But when we went to leave, she had not told her mum (because she collects her from work) that we were going to get a coffee, instead she went home, so I felt a little crushed because she didn't recognise the effort I put into arranging us to meet up awhile after work.
And the foremost problem that has now arisen is that she desperately wants to leave the store we work at, to work at a store down the road from the one we work at. I'm not sure she cares that we won't even see eachother now for who knows how long, since it was the only place we can meet up at, there's little point even saying we can meet up after our shifts because clearly she won't wait for me to finish, so I'm feelings slightly hurt she still wants to change store, but if it makes her happy then why not.
Am I taking this all personally, and perhaps being clingy or is she trying to make me break up with her off my own accord or something? Bearing in mind that we are both 17, and that I'm inexperienced, please don't go posting any obnoxious or mocking comments, but all help advice appreciated thanks
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