A friend of ours called my WS this morning to tell him his wife of not quite two years is leaving him for another man. He was only told hours ago, by his WW. He had not been suspicious.
WW is a SAHM to her children from a previous marriage; they have no children together and he has no bio kids at all. He is, however, very close to her kids. He describes the situation as the family he never had. He's in his early 50's and was married once before for about 10 years, no kids, marriage basically ended amicably, no cheating that I know of.
Our friend, the BS, works very long hours, is often out of town for work, and said he had no idea his WS was cheating. A few months back his WW went out of town for the day to make a large household purchase and now she's leaving the BS for the salesman :(:mad:. BS does not yet know OM's marital status. However, he has been told the OM rented a house for the WW and her kids in the OM's town, about two hours away. His WW is moving out today and into the house the OM has arranged for. I'm not sure but I'm guessing if the OM is single he will also be moving into this house. The WW's only income is the child support she receives from her first husband. The salesman OM works entirely on commission.
An added twist to this story and FWIW, the BS learned about a month ago his WW has a criminal record; a couple of felonies, non-violent crimes which surely indicate her capacity for deceit. The BS found this out from someone else, had it looked into, and the story he was told checks out. I'm not sure how they were dealing with that aspect of things.
What I found odd was the WW just woke up this morning and told the BS she had been having a PA for a couple of months, who it was with, and that she was moving out with the kids today. When the BS asked what he had done to "push her into this," she said nothing. She had met the OM, they fell "in love," end of story.....nothing to do with our friend. Per our friend she had not been acting distant or moody, hadn't pushed him away, none of that.
Why I find it odd is because it doesn't seem to fit into the typical affair mold; getting caught, denial and trickle truth, trying to cake eat, blah blah. She just came out with the confession and said what she intended to do, leave.
Has anyone experienced or heard of this type of dday?
WW is a SAHM to her children from a previous marriage; they have no children together and he has no bio kids at all. He is, however, very close to her kids. He describes the situation as the family he never had. He's in his early 50's and was married once before for about 10 years, no kids, marriage basically ended amicably, no cheating that I know of.
Our friend, the BS, works very long hours, is often out of town for work, and said he had no idea his WS was cheating. A few months back his WW went out of town for the day to make a large household purchase and now she's leaving the BS for the salesman :(:mad:. BS does not yet know OM's marital status. However, he has been told the OM rented a house for the WW and her kids in the OM's town, about two hours away. His WW is moving out today and into the house the OM has arranged for. I'm not sure but I'm guessing if the OM is single he will also be moving into this house. The WW's only income is the child support she receives from her first husband. The salesman OM works entirely on commission.
An added twist to this story and FWIW, the BS learned about a month ago his WW has a criminal record; a couple of felonies, non-violent crimes which surely indicate her capacity for deceit. The BS found this out from someone else, had it looked into, and the story he was told checks out. I'm not sure how they were dealing with that aspect of things.
What I found odd was the WW just woke up this morning and told the BS she had been having a PA for a couple of months, who it was with, and that she was moving out with the kids today. When the BS asked what he had done to "push her into this," she said nothing. She had met the OM, they fell "in love," end of story.....nothing to do with our friend. Per our friend she had not been acting distant or moody, hadn't pushed him away, none of that.
Why I find it odd is because it doesn't seem to fit into the typical affair mold; getting caught, denial and trickle truth, trying to cake eat, blah blah. She just came out with the confession and said what she intended to do, leave.
Has anyone experienced or heard of this type of dday?
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