I have moved, physically and emotionally from my old home and I hope, from my old relationship. I am spending time with a man I knew in college, meet up through a common friend. He is such a great guy, D x 10 years, two kids, 3 grandkids who he adores. We have a lot of interests in common, had a great summer, hanging out on weekends, occasionally during the week, as he lives about 90 minutes away. He is telling me he hasn't seen or learned a thing about me that he doesn't like, he is really happy with our relationship but doesn't want to pressure me since I am just a couple of years out after a 30 year relationship.
When we are together, I am so comfortable, he is really interested in my job, my friends, my hobbies, my family. He listens when I am sad, celebrates when I am happy, etc.
Now, the concern. I like many things about my single life. I miss many things about being in a relationship. I'm not sure he is my next love, I am not sure I am ready to be in love again. There is no hurry, but my heart tells me this is an important relationship, but I am a total chicken. In my marriage, I gave my all. I don't think I would survive doing that again. Words of wisdom please
When we are together, I am so comfortable, he is really interested in my job, my friends, my hobbies, my family. He listens when I am sad, celebrates when I am happy, etc.
Now, the concern. I like many things about my single life. I miss many things about being in a relationship. I'm not sure he is my next love, I am not sure I am ready to be in love again. There is no hurry, but my heart tells me this is an important relationship, but I am a total chicken. In my marriage, I gave my all. I don't think I would survive doing that again. Words of wisdom please
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