I thoght id make this topic as loads of my uni friends have asked me this. My course is a little bit geeky. And i know some people will think im a pr*** after reading this but i dont care it is how it is.
I didnt really know this friendzone thing was an issue until i got to uni, lot of boys here come from privately educated backgrounds so had a way different social life to me.
Lot of boys seem to for some reason think if they listen to the girl do everything she says, they think shes gonna like you more. People who always use words like please and thank you and wow with girls. They end up seeing you as some kind of mate that always says the right thing and is always 'there' for them.
To get out of this friendzone thing u need to start acting differently. I dont know why but girls aint looking for nice arse kissing guys.
Firstly u need to shorten your texts. If she writes u a paragraph you reply with one word answers. It will piss her of but trust me she will want to talk to you more.
You need to also get angry with her once or twice when shes being awkward, use a couple of swear words or just say blatently 'what are u playing at?, swear down your p***ing me of'.
Make sure you know other girls, especially make sure your on friendly terms with her close best friends.
And dont compliment her like crazy. Say you look ok today, or yeah your alright.
Oh and compliment other girls when your around her. Im not saying you should be a player but it helps to keep her attached.
And ignore her texts every now and then like just dont reply. Also order her a little, dont say 'it would be nice if u came to see me tomorrow', say 'come see me tomorrow'.
I once said to a girl (who was pretty) but i said your butters. She came back and found me afterwards and we spent good time together. And dont like every picture on her fb and insta, just one or two.
So im really sorry if i offended any one, but this is the way ive seen it from my experience.
Put the internet to work for you.
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