We've been together 3 1/2 years and things have been 'fiery' the whole time.
We have always had arguments, always made up. But I'm just not happy in the relationship anymore. I really care for her but I've got to think about myself because carrying on with the relationship will lead to an unhappy life for both of us.
However, the problems in doing so are just too much.
We live together, with cats, she's dependant on me financially, she seems way too emotionally dependant on me as well, she has no family in this country, not many friends.
Basically if I was to break up with her I'd be fine as I could stop at my parent's house for a few months. I'd be happy to continue paying my share of the rent and bills until she found a place (1 or 2 months hopefully), but I can't really see her being able to afford a place on her own, let alone one which will allow cats (the cats are literally like her children).
The whole thing would completely devastate her - emotionally (losing me and potentially her cats, having no one to really talk to, etc) and financially.
Bit of help needed!!
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