I have a friend who I was once really close with (I'm female and he's male) we're both 18 and going off to uni in a few weeks. I've recently discovered that he doesn't actually treat me very well and I dont really like his personality that much...
He keeps making me look bad in conversations and demands so much of my attention that I cant really talk to my other friends....he treats me like we're best friends and I'm at his disposal when I've tried to make it clear that I want a bit of space. He texts me all the time and gets annoyed when I dont reply and he keeps on about whether I'll visit him at uni and how lonely he'll be. I can't do this anymore!
He basically sets himself up to be miserable, by picking a uni really far away (all our friends will be going to uni in the north/midlands, birmingham, manchester, york etc and he's going to exeter!) when he has a complex about being left out. He is being so negative about uni that he won't make friends because he'll 'miss me too much' and I've tried changing the subject and telling him to be more positive but it won't work!
We once had a FWB arrangement and I feel like I cant be harsh with him because I ended it because he got feelings for me. He makes me feel like I owe him something for ending it and he asks me to tell him if I get with guys at uni, is this normal behaviour? Should I feel guilty?
I just dont know what to do I dont enjoy being his friend anymore and I feel like he might even have some kind of manic depression because of his behaviour. HELP!!:(
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