I'm a long time lurker and signed up to ask this specifically. Long story short, a few months ago in a lecture I walked in with a guy. We were talking about stuff, everything was normal. We both commute and I struck up conversation with him in a seminar once. It was something about the work and it went from there. Normal. No suggestion of romantic interest whatsoever but I guess there never really is. He's very overweight but this has never bothered me. I never really noticed it after our initial meeting. I'm sort of friends with a different guy in uni, he's a bit of a dickhead at times. The overweight friend and I walked into a lab session together and the other guy asked me "why are you always with that fat ****?" a bit too loudly. He heard. I felt a surge of anger and calmly said "you're an ugly mother****er and I still talk to you, don't I?" and his face sort of crumbled. The overweight guy smiled and I felt good about how my comment made him feel.
Now he won't leave me alone. It's been months and after he got my number for assignment/uni talk he's started to become a little overbearing. He's okay as a friend but he's been hinting at a bit more. I'm not afraid to say that I'm an attractive girl (at least I get attention from guys, if that's even a means of determining how pretty you are lol). He put his arm around me once, I told him not to. He texts me at night, uneccessarily. He's just coming on really strong. I know it's not just friendly because of his consistent ;) in texts and just a change in vibe. I initially tried to put him off, even telling him I was going to stay single through uni etc. I then told him I wasn't interested in a relationship with him. He's still going on. As if there's still hope? I don't want to cut him off because he's a bit lonely and I'd feel like a cow. Wow, that long story wasn't made short. Thanks for reading. What do I do?
Put the internet to work for you.
No comments:
Post a Comment