So after years of other women, lies, cheating, neglect, abusive behavior, I kick him out of the house. 8 months later he tells me he got his daughter's friend pregnant and I file for divorce.
The divorce is final but we're still working on dividing the pensions.
All I hear is constant whining about what he's losing, how he has to pay "everyone" (being me and baby mama child support), how he's being screwed over. Poor me, poor me.
It's pathetic.
Last night he came over to pick up our son, and went into a tirade about how I don't get to choose which method of division (ie; cash out or rollover) and if I don't do what he wants he's "screwed" because he will have to work longer, yada yada. Hell, he's going to have to work until he's 65 to pay child support to the latest baby mama anyway.
I am flabbergasted that someone who has to pay the natural consequences for his poor life choices has the nerve to WHINE like a little baby about what he has to pay.
I had enough and told him I don't want to hear it any more. Don't come around here attacking me. He started to get more verbally aggressive and in the end I said "you should have thought about this before you cheated and then got some skank pregnant". He stormed out. He later texted me to apologize and I ignored him. Immaturity and a complete inability to look at himself and own his mistakes.
Does anyone else's ex carry on this way?
The divorce is final but we're still working on dividing the pensions.
All I hear is constant whining about what he's losing, how he has to pay "everyone" (being me and baby mama child support), how he's being screwed over. Poor me, poor me.
It's pathetic.
Last night he came over to pick up our son, and went into a tirade about how I don't get to choose which method of division (ie; cash out or rollover) and if I don't do what he wants he's "screwed" because he will have to work longer, yada yada. Hell, he's going to have to work until he's 65 to pay child support to the latest baby mama anyway.
I am flabbergasted that someone who has to pay the natural consequences for his poor life choices has the nerve to WHINE like a little baby about what he has to pay.
I had enough and told him I don't want to hear it any more. Don't come around here attacking me. He started to get more verbally aggressive and in the end I said "you should have thought about this before you cheated and then got some skank pregnant". He stormed out. He later texted me to apologize and I ignored him. Immaturity and a complete inability to look at himself and own his mistakes.
Does anyone else's ex carry on this way?
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