So, I'm trying to understand my husband. Well, actually its just getting on my nerves. But my husband has this thing as if I ask him to do something he really doesn't want to do, he gives this impression that he wants me to beg him to do it. For example, I asked him could he go on a couples date night with couple friend of mind. At first he immediately said no. Okay, so did ask him again the same day, he said, "I said no." Okay, so I made plans and scheduled dinner with my girlfriend. He then calls me at the same time we're supposed to be at the restaurant and asks, where are you? I say, I'm at dinner. He states, well, I got dressed. (I'm thinking, dressed for what?.) So I respond, you said that you did not want to hang out with us so we're having dinner. His response.... "well, I couldn't just let you win so easily." Ummmm, what?
Second, I asked him a couple days ago if he could take our daughter to swim class. He says no. Now, I know he has nothing to do during that time, but you can say no because you rather watch tv instead. So, I make other plans. He asks me last night, so what day was it again that I was supposed to pick up Char and take her to swim...immediate *blank stare* and internal rage. I say to him, "I wish you would have confirmed that you were willing to take her to swim." He says, well, you should have called me at work before you made your plans to see if I had changed my mind.
Guys, I don't like playing games. I know my husband's schedule and its pretty much go to work, come home, sleep and watch tv. So if I ask can he do something, I already know for the most part if he has stuff today. But still, he has the perogative to do it or not. Things is, I am not going to beg him. If I am able to move forward otherwise I will. Can you help me understand?
Second, I asked him a couple days ago if he could take our daughter to swim class. He says no. Now, I know he has nothing to do during that time, but you can say no because you rather watch tv instead. So, I make other plans. He asks me last night, so what day was it again that I was supposed to pick up Char and take her to swim...immediate *blank stare* and internal rage. I say to him, "I wish you would have confirmed that you were willing to take her to swim." He says, well, you should have called me at work before you made your plans to see if I had changed my mind.
Guys, I don't like playing games. I know my husband's schedule and its pretty much go to work, come home, sleep and watch tv. So if I ask can he do something, I already know for the most part if he has stuff today. But still, he has the perogative to do it or not. Things is, I am not going to beg him. If I am able to move forward otherwise I will. Can you help me understand?
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