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Question about masturbation in relationships

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Just another one of those insecure posts on here but I would appreciate some opinions.

Recently I came across my boyfriends porn collection on his computer. I shouldn't have been snooping around but I was curious because he has told me he masturbates almost everyday. Aside from his porno videos I was shocked to find that his collection of photos were not the stereotypically sexy girls with big boobs and tiny waists. The majority of these girls were from a web page titled "uk chav sluts". You can probably imagine the images that can up. I don't like to generalise but there were your typical "trashy" type. Another weird thing is that very few of them were naked. I was shocked because I have often been told by my bf that he thinks girls look awful with excessive fake tan but most of these girls were covered in make-up. We are both into punk rock and dress in that style so I thought girls who dressed in an alternative way were more his thing.

As we are open about our thoughts in our relationship I spoke to him and told him this made me uncomfortable. He was quite embarrassed that I had found his private collection and told me that when he's masturbating he wants something "dirty and trashy" to get off to because "it's just a w**k and anything will do". As for me, I was everything he wanted in a relationship and these pictures were for when he "needed to ejaculate". Is it normal for me to feel upset/uncomfortable about this or is it something that a lot of guys in relationships do?

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