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Im in a situation with my partner. We are receiving counselling and part of this process is to make a list/rules about what we want from each other and how the list compares and an agreement of how we can work together to meet each other needs.
So basically we each have a list of rules not to break we have each agreed on each others list.
The list was compiled yesterday but we got into an argument an I have stuck to the rules but my partner hasnt. I.e he deceieved me, got angry, insulted me, judged me and didntnt take responsibility but still justified his actions by saying he has to add more to his list but cant find the words to write it down. He also said that he was annoyed by saying that he didnt get into the garden to the sun even though it was my idea to relax in the sun today. Confused because he is generally good looking after kids, shopping, chores. But my gut instinct says otherwise x
Im in a situation with my partner. We are receiving counselling and part of this process is to make a list/rules about what we want from each other and how the list compares and an agreement of how we can work together to meet each other needs.
So basically we each have a list of rules not to break we have each agreed on each others list.
The list was compiled yesterday but we got into an argument an I have stuck to the rules but my partner hasnt. I.e he deceieved me, got angry, insulted me, judged me and didntnt take responsibility but still justified his actions by saying he has to add more to his list but cant find the words to write it down. He also said that he was annoyed by saying that he didnt get into the garden to the sun even though it was my idea to relax in the sun today. Confused because he is generally good looking after kids, shopping, chores. But my gut instinct says otherwise x
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