okay lets get a point of view
Wife saw her friend early week,
then said she was seeing her late,
the friend cancels and my wife arranges to see this older guy.
This guy is in his 60's,
I dont get paranoid very often but she took a lot of time to get ready and even wore a dress. So okay i did check her phone before she went out, the friend had cancelled the day before so my wife texts this chap to see if they can have lunch.
Even more, a while later she actually put a security lock on the phone itself.
asks me does she look nice well obviously she does. so i say yep.
she goes out, comes back, very nice and pie etc. A bit tired but shes had a tired week anyway.
I say nothing, its rare i check a phone without reason,i mean very rare.
So Saturday rolls around,we get into an arguement,i say who did you see yesterday she says her friend, i dont believe her,but makes me seem paranoid so its left.
Next night rolls around i freak and ask again, she says her friend,so offers to call them at midnight, i say no thats stupid,let me look at your phone,she wasnt having it.
Now this guy she helped last year through work in a care sector he had an op,he took out to dinner to say thankyou,which i knew about but said it wouldnt happen again because in my opinion it shouldnt.
She blatantly denies seeing this guy making out ive lost my mind. The evidence though is blatantly there. Its not in her moral code to cheat in that way..
But whats your take on things? Just to make sure im not going mental.
No i did not say i checked her phone as normally i dont and i dont want it to seem like im always paranoid because im not,i just know her well enough to form an opinion of things that seem
is it just me...do you think its because i said id rather it not happen again or something else
Wife saw her friend early week,
then said she was seeing her late,
the friend cancels and my wife arranges to see this older guy.
This guy is in his 60's,
I dont get paranoid very often but she took a lot of time to get ready and even wore a dress. So okay i did check her phone before she went out, the friend had cancelled the day before so my wife texts this chap to see if they can have lunch.
Even more, a while later she actually put a security lock on the phone itself.
asks me does she look nice well obviously she does. so i say yep.
she goes out, comes back, very nice and pie etc. A bit tired but shes had a tired week anyway.
I say nothing, its rare i check a phone without reason,i mean very rare.
So Saturday rolls around,we get into an arguement,i say who did you see yesterday she says her friend, i dont believe her,but makes me seem paranoid so its left.
Next night rolls around i freak and ask again, she says her friend,so offers to call them at midnight, i say no thats stupid,let me look at your phone,she wasnt having it.
Now this guy she helped last year through work in a care sector he had an op,he took out to dinner to say thankyou,which i knew about but said it wouldnt happen again because in my opinion it shouldnt.
She blatantly denies seeing this guy making out ive lost my mind. The evidence though is blatantly there. Its not in her moral code to cheat in that way..
But whats your take on things? Just to make sure im not going mental.
No i did not say i checked her phone as normally i dont and i dont want it to seem like im always paranoid because im not,i just know her well enough to form an opinion of things that seem
is it just me...do you think its because i said id rather it not happen again or something else
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