Hi everyone, I just found this site and i hope I can get some need advice. I have been married 11yrs together 13yrs. we have 2 young children. I work full time and she is a full time college student. Our marriage has been pretty good for most of the time. We were both affectionate and are each other best friend. She's alway had only guy friends but it didn't bother me becuase i have know them as friends for a long time. One night we went out together and she drank alittle too much. next thing i know shes gone. Appaerntly she met with some guy at another bar that she had been talking to before. I found her but didn't go inside to get her. I txed herabout coming home . She just lol'ed and said she was on her way. She wasn't. After 3 hr i finaly went down there to confront her. She was behind the bar talking to him. He ran away she came home. We talked all night she says she kissed him. She also said that she didn't have that sexual chemestry with me anymor e. We talked more and decicded to work on our relationship. 1 Mo later on a Friday she tells me that nothings changed and didn't think it could. She loves me but the chemestry wasn't there. I found out later the OM texted her that night. I told her we should take a break and she could stay at her mothers who was out of town. Saturday she came over. We talked alittle but the vibe i got from her was it was over. I told her to come back on sunday talk again and maybe finlize things. i called her sunday morning and told her maybe we should wait and give it a week to see if things get better. She came over later that day and We looked at each other and felt maybe we could work things out. Later that evening she tells me she slept with the OM Saturday night and she hates her self. She left him right away and says she knew she made a mistake. She says she knows now that she wants to be with me and she was stupid before for taking me for granted.She hardly eats or sleeps and is cryn ig contantly. I know she is sorry for what she did and I have always thought of her as my soulmate. Do any of you think this is something we can get over and move on, or am I setting my self up for another heartbreak
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