(Excuse my terrible English.)
I find it very difficult to meet women by which I see good chances to fall in love with.
For me the criteria are:
- natural
- intellectual / wise
- feminine / conservative
- desire for unconditional love
This is a deadly combination, my chances are equal to 0 it seems.
These days it is hard to find people with natural appearance/look.
9/10 women I see are loaded with makeup, nail polish and trendy outfits.
So the opposite of being conservative usually.
Most are not feminine, more like a sexy puppet.
Not style, elegance is the key word.
Next point:
I smell from miles away (and can confirm it later when I talk to them) that they are bounded to their smartphones. They know literally nothing about the world. Ok, there are many people who have some clue about some topics (mostly just their hobbies or studies), but still intellectually this is all.
Having knowledge in geography, history, music, classic literature, politics, science and sports is meant with being intellectual (all together). Didn't meet a single woman with those kind of knowledge at my age. At least something where I can see that this person has a good range of knowledge. But mostly I am disappointed.
Ok, not everyone must seek for deeper information. They can be wise/intelligent, it would be great, too. But those women who are attached to their smartphones and wise? Very unlikely.
The last point is seeking for true love.
Ok, it is not easy to find out how people are in real but I observe people.
And then from behaviour traits I see it. Of course everyone wants to to meet the boy/girl in his/her dreams. But just a few people are patient.
For example people who are clubbing are not those patient ones. They don't seek for true love (very likely). Not that clubbing is a bad thing (like dancing and so on) but having a busy night life is an indicator.
So, there are many other traits like that.
The best indicator is how many boyfriends a women had.
I assume that she told to the first one that she loves him. And the same to the second bf. And then again, and again...
So, you see where it goes...
How should I believe that this person believes in true love?
The problem is that these days most of women had many relationships. It makes it really hard.
Whenever I meet a natural woman, I see that our minds are far away from each other.
Whenever I meet a smart girl, they are far away from being conservative.
Whenever I think that this person could be interesting, I find out that this person doesn't own a romantic idea of true love. Just sailing from a bay to another like most people do.
This combination is killing me.
I am a male student (25) with decent charm. I think I am smart and funny and have no problem at all with women. At least I can quickly have a conversation with girls with no problems at all. And I had some/many opportunities to let some relations become to relationships. I never did it because it didn't feel right. I have the romantic idea of true love so I didn't want to get used by my libido.
My problem is that I just can't meet people who would be ok. I am not talking about perfect or chemistry/love. Just ok, just fitting. Even this seems for me very unlikely.
Of course my person itself is maybe unalluring. Maybe I am a really ugly guy, stupid and so on. So maybe women will never be attracted to me.
But this is another story. I just can not meet those people at all. After I met them, they still can not like me. No problem. But where are you smart, natural, romantic girls? Where?
I am not afraid of being lonely for the rest of my life. Never ever would I prefer a relationship over a true love so I wait for the right time. But I could increase my chances if I just could meet those potencial people. If they dismiss me then I will understand it (hopefully). But before this happens you must meet someone.
Any advice or thoughts?
Is here (just curious) anyone who thinks that she fits my criteria?
Am I asking for too much? Why?
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