So I'm seeing this girl and its pretty damn good, we get on great talk all the time, sex is fantastic similar interests, excellent communication the works. Figuring she could the long play.
However the problem is her eldest son. He is 9 and has diabetes and aspergers. Thats not an issue i can deal with that. On one hand hes a smart, funny, bright kid. On the other hes a sneaky devious underhanded lying bully. But i can deal with that.
However recently hes started taking to stealing. At first it was a library book - he ripped out the stamping sheet on the front and tried to make out it was his. Various incidents of his nicking sweets from the press and all that.
But recently he stole from me - in my house. It was an ice cream some might say - its only an ice cream hardly armed robbery - but thats not the point, the value of the item isnt the issue its that he took it in the first place. Not to mention with his diabetes hes not allowed things like that (cept on rare occasions) which he knows. And he didnt get it himself, he got his four old brother to go to the kitchen and bring it to him in the bedroom. That way if the little brother got caught he could deny all knoweledge of it.
I turned round to my partner yesterday and said that if this keeps up he will not be welcome in my house, that i will not have someone in my house who is going to steal from me. Blunt and too the point, but im about as subtle as a brick to the face
She became very upset at this. She seemed to take it that i was pretty much saying i was going to break up with her. Which i wasnt and i said as much.
I dont feel i was wrong in what i said. I see no reason why i should have to risk my possessions because of him.
TLDR - kid stole from me, told my gf (his mom) if he keeps it up i dont want him in my house. Was i in the right?
However the problem is her eldest son. He is 9 and has diabetes and aspergers. Thats not an issue i can deal with that. On one hand hes a smart, funny, bright kid. On the other hes a sneaky devious underhanded lying bully. But i can deal with that.
However recently hes started taking to stealing. At first it was a library book - he ripped out the stamping sheet on the front and tried to make out it was his. Various incidents of his nicking sweets from the press and all that.
But recently he stole from me - in my house. It was an ice cream some might say - its only an ice cream hardly armed robbery - but thats not the point, the value of the item isnt the issue its that he took it in the first place. Not to mention with his diabetes hes not allowed things like that (cept on rare occasions) which he knows. And he didnt get it himself, he got his four old brother to go to the kitchen and bring it to him in the bedroom. That way if the little brother got caught he could deny all knoweledge of it.
I turned round to my partner yesterday and said that if this keeps up he will not be welcome in my house, that i will not have someone in my house who is going to steal from me. Blunt and too the point, but im about as subtle as a brick to the face
She became very upset at this. She seemed to take it that i was pretty much saying i was going to break up with her. Which i wasnt and i said as much.
I dont feel i was wrong in what i said. I see no reason why i should have to risk my possessions because of him.
TLDR - kid stole from me, told my gf (his mom) if he keeps it up i dont want him in my house. Was i in the right?
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