Ok. So my wife and I watched a show about open relationships. We got into a long discussion about what rules we would have if we were in an open relationship. The rules were you could only meet people via Facebook or Xbox Live. Then you could only meet the person in real life after 1 year. We both agreed. The problem is.....turns out it was a trap. After a week or so she tells me that it was all a ploy to see if I would agree.
Her Side
She says that I shouldn't have agreed because I should not want to be with anyone else and I should not want her to be with anyone else.
My Side
I say that even though I agreed, I didn't participate. I didn't talk to anyone or try to date anyone because I don't need or want anyone.
Her Side
Then she says that it doesn't matter that I didn't participate. What matters is that I agreed in the first place.
My Side
I say that it doesn't matter that I agreed. What matters is that I didn't even try to be with anyone.
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Now she is talking about divorce. Am I wrong or is she wrong? How can I fix this? Please help. All opinions and advice are welcome.
Her Side
She says that I shouldn't have agreed because I should not want to be with anyone else and I should not want her to be with anyone else.
My Side
I say that even though I agreed, I didn't participate. I didn't talk to anyone or try to date anyone because I don't need or want anyone.
Her Side
Then she says that it doesn't matter that I didn't participate. What matters is that I agreed in the first place.
My Side
I say that it doesn't matter that I agreed. What matters is that I didn't even try to be with anyone.
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Now she is talking about divorce. Am I wrong or is she wrong? How can I fix this? Please help. All opinions and advice are welcome.
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