He used me for sex!

Met someone beginning of February, all was going pretty well. He was quite vocal on how much he enjoys sex, which I do too but it didn't bother me. We'd had several dates which all went quite well. I was going to see him before I went on holiday but he was busy and so was I. The past 2 weeks whilst I've been on holiday he has been messaging me on Skype; practically not one day went by whereby he didn't send me a message. I was excited to see him when I got back, and so was he. I returned last week, went to see him Friday evening, spent the night . . and not heard a word since! I sent a polite, friendly message yesterday with general ''how are you?..hope work hasn't been too manic'', but I've heard nothing. He's still on Skype, 'Online', hasn't blocked me, although did change his status to 'Do not Disturb', but now it's back to 'Online'. However I am determined to remain dignified and not chase, bombard the c*** with numerous messages, not that kinda of gi rl. But at the same time, I have a mixture of emotions going on. Upset, pissed off, hurt, annoyed. I even said to him ''Please do not mug me off'', he said ''No I wouldn't do that''.

Have I just been naive about the whole thing? I genuinely thought he liked me. I don't sleep around, I can count on 1 hand how many people I have been with, to which I am proud of. But this situation has made me feel incredibly crap about myself.

How do I get over something like this? I have kinda just 'put myself' back out there and carrying on with my life. But the heartache hurts :(

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