TLDR: guys, what is love like. What are you emotional experiences with love, how did it feel what did it mean for you? Can I risk investing in it x
I'm a small minded fool who never thought about men being in love the same way as woman. Please correct me. I know though that love is vast and means different things to different people for some it's fleeting and can be frivolous and others dependant and consuming. That is what worries me. I plan to go with the flow and not worry but I just want a male perspective on how they see love. Even if it's generalized and hence not helpful
My experience below:
I used to be on TSR years ago trolling and writing inane things about how guys were annoying and I return today to ask for help.
I've been seeing this guy. He's wonderful. The best. He's been enveloped into my friendship circle, everyone loves him. If it weren't for the fact we were kind of seeing each other I would say I love him as a friend because he's a great friend but an even better lover.
We've been seeing one another for little over 2 months and he is solidified himself as a friend in my circle.
I have no complaints about him, when he looks at me or touches me I feel magical. We have great adventurous sex and deep intimate conversations and intellectual debates. He's patient and caring and dizzyingly lovely.
He has gone home for Easter and when we were really ****ed at a party the night before he left he said I love you. I know it might just be the intoxition speaking so I ignored it. I didn't want to believe something that was untrue. If it was true I am still scared. I didn't say it back but I know I could have because it is true if only I let it. I could love this guy and I'm trying so very hard not to. I'm so sorry for all this self absorbed dribbling.
Ultimately I want to know what do those words mean to most men? I don't even know what they mean for me because I've never let myself feel them but I would really love to hear about guys in love/love experiences to tell me about the feelings and 'meaning' of love to them.
Thank you so much. I'm not very in touch with emotions so this means a lot xXxX xx
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