This story has a bit of a back story, so bare with me.I have been living with this couple for a couple months in our uni flat. They broke around 3 or more weeks ago and the girl took it really bad – i felt bad so i really was there for her – but then after a while it triggered my depression from some unresolved issues that was presented at the time.
I became really good friends with the guy recently and hang out most days. He really understood the fact his relationship took its toll on me and has been really nice about it. Since we have been hanging out, the girlfriend is frustrated with me and angry using subtle things…. like i was cold so he gave me a jumper and she was like "nice jumper …thats his…you suit it" i didnt mean to upset her or anyone intentionally, but she becomes really mean towards me some times. I feel she only targets me, when there are other girls who also hang out with him (he has a lot of girl mates)I have started to like him and tried to keep it to myself, knowing if it came out it would be messy. I went to a party with him and his ex and they are being civil with each other but then he was drunk and sat next to me talking and then all of sudden asked me if i fancied him ? because a girl in the flat had said i did …i panicked and quickly said no… afterwards i was walking with his ex and she asked me exactly the same thing? i was really confused why and what does this mean ? I ttalked to the girl in the flat he mentioned as shes my close friend and said she hasnt spoken to him – which is true – she always has work and has her boyfriend constantly round so she never has a chance to really speak with him.
Helppp ??What should i do if i do like him ?? i was really confused why and what does this mean if he says if i like him ?
I became really good friends with the guy recently and hang out most days. He really understood the fact his relationship took its toll on me and has been really nice about it. Since we have been hanging out, the girlfriend is frustrated with me and angry using subtle things…. like i was cold so he gave me a jumper and she was like "nice jumper …thats his…you suit it" i didnt mean to upset her or anyone intentionally, but she becomes really mean towards me some times. I feel she only targets me, when there are other girls who also hang out with him (he has a lot of girl mates)I have started to like him and tried to keep it to myself, knowing if it came out it would be messy. I went to a party with him and his ex and they are being civil with each other but then he was drunk and sat next to me talking and then all of sudden asked me if i fancied him ? because a girl in the flat had said i did …i panicked and quickly said no… afterwards i was walking with his ex and she asked me exactly the same thing? i was really confused why and what does this mean ? I ttalked to the girl in the flat he mentioned as shes my close friend and said she hasnt spoken to him – which is true – she always has work and has her boyfriend constantly round so she never has a chance to really speak with him.
Helppp ??What should i do if i do like him ?? i was really confused why and what does this mean if he says if i like him ?
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