Hi,
I am 24 and just married this year to an amazing man who I love very much. Recently we have been having some trouble. I was unwise enough to tell him that I wish he would lose some weight and that it has been an issue for me since we started dating. ): I've struggled to not let it show that I am not attracted to his belly, he is only slightly overweight and I don't even mind sometimes, but other times I am turned off by it in the bedroom. He always says he wishes I was more assertive and passionate in the bedroom but this seems to be a think for me that turns me off a bit. Sometimes I am really passionate though, he just notices that something is off and so I wanted to finally be honest that his extra belly is something I wish wasn't an unattraction for me but it is at times. I find myself thinking that I shouldn't have married him if I can't love him properly, he is an amazing person and deserves the best, I will never ever leave him but he is very hurt now and our connectio n just isn't the same. He says he feels ugly and fat more often now. I don't know how to take it back, I don't think he's ugly I just know I would be more passionate and sexually attracted without the belly. I've told him this. :/ I don't know if I did the right thing by telling him and want to take it back now so he feels good in his own skin. I am very tiny 5'3" and 105 lbs, I have a fast metabolism and excercise a lot and I guess I had expectations that my husband would be fit and lean like me. He is 5'6" and 170 I think. He's definitly not fat or huge; it's just a desire I have and it seems to get in the way in the bedroom more than I wish it did. What can I do!??
I am 24 and just married this year to an amazing man who I love very much. Recently we have been having some trouble. I was unwise enough to tell him that I wish he would lose some weight and that it has been an issue for me since we started dating. ): I've struggled to not let it show that I am not attracted to his belly, he is only slightly overweight and I don't even mind sometimes, but other times I am turned off by it in the bedroom. He always says he wishes I was more assertive and passionate in the bedroom but this seems to be a think for me that turns me off a bit. Sometimes I am really passionate though, he just notices that something is off and so I wanted to finally be honest that his extra belly is something I wish wasn't an unattraction for me but it is at times. I find myself thinking that I shouldn't have married him if I can't love him properly, he is an amazing person and deserves the best, I will never ever leave him but he is very hurt now and our connectio n just isn't the same. He says he feels ugly and fat more often now. I don't know how to take it back, I don't think he's ugly I just know I would be more passionate and sexually attracted without the belly. I've told him this. :/ I don't know if I did the right thing by telling him and want to take it back now so he feels good in his own skin. I am very tiny 5'3" and 105 lbs, I have a fast metabolism and excercise a lot and I guess I had expectations that my husband would be fit and lean like me. He is 5'6" and 170 I think. He's definitly not fat or huge; it's just a desire I have and it seems to get in the way in the bedroom more than I wish it did. What can I do!??
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