Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years. Im 20 shes 19 and have always had a happy and trusting relationship. At the start we were both at college 3; days a week and we sent whatever time we could together. After a couple.months she was staying at mine or I was at hers every night which is probably why there are now problems.
Anyway about 6 months ago I started a job that is shifts and I mostly do backshift and weekends and she works 9-4 mon-fri. For this reason we have started spending alot less time together. Maybe 2 or 3 nights per week.
A few weeks ago the company she worked for went bust and she lost her job and decided to go on a 16 week training course which is 5 days a week. Since this course started she has been alot happier which is amazing to see but she never has her phone out of her hand. On the traing course she had to go away for 4 nights with everyone on it and since coming back on wednesday its all she has spoke about. She always speaks to a boy she met up there on fb. Usually it wpuldnt bother me i feel as if she would rather speak to him than me. Ive confronted her about this and she has told me that nithing has or ever will happen and that hes just a friend.
Ive since been offered a job 400miles away but earning triple what I maoe right now and she says that she wouldnt leave or her family to come with me. Im finding it really difficult and I know she lives me but every time I bring him up she jumps on the defensive saying she needs friends aswell as me. Its her birthday next month so I suggested we go for a meal and then meet up with all of her new friends and go for a few drinks. Her reply was no she wants to go for a meal and stuff with me and go out clubbing with these new friends seperately. She doesnt wajt me to go on the night out with the friends which scares me so much.
I know she wouldbt cheat but I know this boy likes her. Why wouldbt he shes gorgeous. The other thing thay scares me is that he split up with his girlfriend the day after they got back from this trip ajd im really worried something will happen with them. Ive ripped myself up over this and im sure its hurting her that I dont trust her to say no if he did make a move but cheatig has ruined so.much for me before. It broke up my parents marraige and I dont think I could cope if the woman I love did it to me.
Sorry for all the grammer mistakes im on my phone.
Any advice is.much appreciated.
Would.much rather try to fix my emotional problems than accuse her and lose her to find out it was all in my head.
Anyway about 6 months ago I started a job that is shifts and I mostly do backshift and weekends and she works 9-4 mon-fri. For this reason we have started spending alot less time together. Maybe 2 or 3 nights per week.
A few weeks ago the company she worked for went bust and she lost her job and decided to go on a 16 week training course which is 5 days a week. Since this course started she has been alot happier which is amazing to see but she never has her phone out of her hand. On the traing course she had to go away for 4 nights with everyone on it and since coming back on wednesday its all she has spoke about. She always speaks to a boy she met up there on fb. Usually it wpuldnt bother me i feel as if she would rather speak to him than me. Ive confronted her about this and she has told me that nithing has or ever will happen and that hes just a friend.
Ive since been offered a job 400miles away but earning triple what I maoe right now and she says that she wouldnt leave or her family to come with me. Im finding it really difficult and I know she lives me but every time I bring him up she jumps on the defensive saying she needs friends aswell as me. Its her birthday next month so I suggested we go for a meal and then meet up with all of her new friends and go for a few drinks. Her reply was no she wants to go for a meal and stuff with me and go out clubbing with these new friends seperately. She doesnt wajt me to go on the night out with the friends which scares me so much.
I know she wouldbt cheat but I know this boy likes her. Why wouldbt he shes gorgeous. The other thing thay scares me is that he split up with his girlfriend the day after they got back from this trip ajd im really worried something will happen with them. Ive ripped myself up over this and im sure its hurting her that I dont trust her to say no if he did make a move but cheatig has ruined so.much for me before. It broke up my parents marraige and I dont think I could cope if the woman I love did it to me.
Sorry for all the grammer mistakes im on my phone.
Any advice is.much appreciated.
Would.much rather try to fix my emotional problems than accuse her and lose her to find out it was all in my head.
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