This is a question because of an argument/issue we have, not just a poll.
How long does it take you to finish? Does it take you longer with a partner than by yourself?
Do you physically help yourself get there either before, during or after or it is all on him?
If you can't finish through penetration, is it a "fair" solution for him to use other measures before or after so you do finish every time, even if it takes a while?
From what I think he was trying to say yesterday, he is upset that I expect every time to be this long, drawn out process and thinks that if he could come to be for a "quickie" without feeling like I would be mad and frustrated after then it would help. Also that I should be doing more for myself before and during.
He was kind of skirting around saying that I'm just not normal in the time it takes, what I need and what my expectations are. So I'd like to know how you guys feel so I know if it's just a me problem... :scratchhead:
How long does it take you to finish? Does it take you longer with a partner than by yourself?
Do you physically help yourself get there either before, during or after or it is all on him?
If you can't finish through penetration, is it a "fair" solution for him to use other measures before or after so you do finish every time, even if it takes a while?
From what I think he was trying to say yesterday, he is upset that I expect every time to be this long, drawn out process and thinks that if he could come to be for a "quickie" without feeling like I would be mad and frustrated after then it would help. Also that I should be doing more for myself before and during.
He was kind of skirting around saying that I'm just not normal in the time it takes, what I need and what my expectations are. So I'd like to know how you guys feel so I know if it's just a me problem... :scratchhead:
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