Me- 30, her- 29. Me- CPA, her- SAHM. Me- BH, her- WW. OM- childhood friend. Me- 6'2 , 200 lbs, OM- 5'8, 220 lbs.
We met when I was 14. Her family had moved in and admitted her to the same school. We met and hit off immediately, like peas in a pod. She was and still is on the skinnier side(not enough meat) but her smile- warm, fuzzy, cuddly. I was 17 when she kissed me under her Xmas tree. And then? Nothing. She said we would have to wait till our marriage. Premarital intimacy was sin. Got married when I was 26. And we lost our virginity(please don't snigger at me for being a virgin for 26 years). Or so I thought until I found out about her secret mail id 3 days ago. I thought the affair started somewhere around April after a GNO ONS.
On the day I was beating my biological dad up, she was making love to the OM. 11 years- 11219 erotic, steamy mails. And she acted the perfect virgin on our wedding night- shy, nervous. She is definitely Oscar material. When it comes to me, almost everything is sinful- bj, anal, etc etc. When it comes to OM- More! Harder!
About OM- dropped out of college. Now a used car salesman. His siblings are holding good jobs. Divorced a year ago. Ignores his 2 kids(3, 2), but still involved in custody battle. Got a gf 4 months ago.
Wife is out of town to attend a friend's marriage for the last 2 days. Would be reaching today. Last msg from her to me today- "I want a baby from you boo boo. Miss you"
What have I done to remedy the situation-
1) Hired a lawyer, gave him the text messages, 4 VAR recordings, and all the emails so that he can enforce the prenup. It divides the community property equally and cancels out alimony, as well as division of other assets 70:30 in favour of BS(she suggested it at the time of marriage).
2) Prepared a draft of exposure letter to be sent to all who attended the wedding at the most opportune time.
And in the last 2 days
3) Gathered all receipts to jewellery I gave her as present. Everything already categorized and have been handed over to my elder brother(including my wedding ring) for a private sale.
4) Just cancelled her credit cards. She has not yet called me about it.
5) Bought half a dozen bags while returning today from the range. Packed up her clothes and accessories and loaded them in her car. Don't know what to do about her footwear- just too many.
6) All the furniture and household items have been sold yesterday. Just a mattress left. Put the house on sale.
7) Informed xOMW and OM's current gf. Had a ..ahem.. meeting together on friday night at my house. Entire discussion recorded and put away safely for future use.
I will confront her today. Her flight lands at 5 pm. 11 years of lies, deceit, betrayal. I don't even know what to say to her.
We met when I was 14. Her family had moved in and admitted her to the same school. We met and hit off immediately, like peas in a pod. She was and still is on the skinnier side(not enough meat) but her smile- warm, fuzzy, cuddly. I was 17 when she kissed me under her Xmas tree. And then? Nothing. She said we would have to wait till our marriage. Premarital intimacy was sin. Got married when I was 26. And we lost our virginity(please don't snigger at me for being a virgin for 26 years). Or so I thought until I found out about her secret mail id 3 days ago. I thought the affair started somewhere around April after a GNO ONS.
On the day I was beating my biological dad up, she was making love to the OM. 11 years- 11219 erotic, steamy mails. And she acted the perfect virgin on our wedding night- shy, nervous. She is definitely Oscar material. When it comes to me, almost everything is sinful- bj, anal, etc etc. When it comes to OM- More! Harder!
About OM- dropped out of college. Now a used car salesman. His siblings are holding good jobs. Divorced a year ago. Ignores his 2 kids(3, 2), but still involved in custody battle. Got a gf 4 months ago.
Wife is out of town to attend a friend's marriage for the last 2 days. Would be reaching today. Last msg from her to me today- "I want a baby from you boo boo. Miss you"
What have I done to remedy the situation-
1) Hired a lawyer, gave him the text messages, 4 VAR recordings, and all the emails so that he can enforce the prenup. It divides the community property equally and cancels out alimony, as well as division of other assets 70:30 in favour of BS(she suggested it at the time of marriage).
2) Prepared a draft of exposure letter to be sent to all who attended the wedding at the most opportune time.
And in the last 2 days
3) Gathered all receipts to jewellery I gave her as present. Everything already categorized and have been handed over to my elder brother(including my wedding ring) for a private sale.
4) Just cancelled her credit cards. She has not yet called me about it.
5) Bought half a dozen bags while returning today from the range. Packed up her clothes and accessories and loaded them in her car. Don't know what to do about her footwear- just too many.
6) All the furniture and household items have been sold yesterday. Just a mattress left. Put the house on sale.
7) Informed xOMW and OM's current gf. Had a ..ahem.. meeting together on friday night at my house. Entire discussion recorded and put away safely for future use.
I will confront her today. Her flight lands at 5 pm. 11 years of lies, deceit, betrayal. I don't even know what to say to her.
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