hello forum. Her is a bit of my background. I have posted here when I first found this site.
I had a walk away wife and was devastated by it. she was my first and true love. She was my first gf at age 14, we married at 28 and divorced at 35. I am now 38.
I can say I do love my ex but with no contact it has made my pain clear and since hearing a year ago that she now lives with another man, I took time to deal with the reality of not getting back together.
I took a long time to even begin going out. I have gone out with 5 different females. I did meet some interesting woman but I was not drawn to them.
I went out with a female on Saturday Jan 11th. I believe the date went well. I know she has a new job and that she is used to dating. after the date I asked her to text me when she got home just to make sure she got home safe. she did and said she had a great time.
I then returned a text saying the same and said maybe we can do it again. she replied "definitely :)"
good sign I believe.
on Monday Jan 13th I sent a text asking her out on the weekend. to which she replied she was going to San Diego. but the following weekend we could. Which I felt is also a good sign.
So on Thursday I sent her a text wishing her a great trip and to let me know if she had free time so I may give her a call later.
she replied "i don't think i'll have time, let's save it for next week"
by this point I'm thinking "Am I getting the brush off?"
so I sent a text " is that a sign or something? i'm not good at this"
she replied "a sign of what?" so I then text "sorry that was meant for my friend. because i felt i was over thinking it.
so today Wednesday. I send her a text "hope you had a great trip and if you would like to go out this weekend I would like that" she replied " hey are you free on friday?"
so we are going out on Friday.
I know she has a new job. but I'm wondering are these normal signs? when we went out, I felt she was having a great time and was asking me great questions about my person. How am I in relationships, my goals, family plans etc.
her going out with me again, does that show some interest? I mean the reason I want to text, talk, go out with her is to get to know her (how else would i)
one friend told me that she just might be a busy person and that her even texting back means something. and that i should over think it.
another friend said that a female that is interested would text or call (which she did not initiate)
any input?
im new to dating. im so lost its not even funny
I had a walk away wife and was devastated by it. she was my first and true love. She was my first gf at age 14, we married at 28 and divorced at 35. I am now 38.
I can say I do love my ex but with no contact it has made my pain clear and since hearing a year ago that she now lives with another man, I took time to deal with the reality of not getting back together.
I took a long time to even begin going out. I have gone out with 5 different females. I did meet some interesting woman but I was not drawn to them.
I went out with a female on Saturday Jan 11th. I believe the date went well. I know she has a new job and that she is used to dating. after the date I asked her to text me when she got home just to make sure she got home safe. she did and said she had a great time.
I then returned a text saying the same and said maybe we can do it again. she replied "definitely :)"
good sign I believe.
on Monday Jan 13th I sent a text asking her out on the weekend. to which she replied she was going to San Diego. but the following weekend we could. Which I felt is also a good sign.
So on Thursday I sent her a text wishing her a great trip and to let me know if she had free time so I may give her a call later.
she replied "i don't think i'll have time, let's save it for next week"
by this point I'm thinking "Am I getting the brush off?"
so I sent a text " is that a sign or something? i'm not good at this"
she replied "a sign of what?" so I then text "sorry that was meant for my friend. because i felt i was over thinking it.
so today Wednesday. I send her a text "hope you had a great trip and if you would like to go out this weekend I would like that" she replied " hey are you free on friday?"
so we are going out on Friday.
I know she has a new job. but I'm wondering are these normal signs? when we went out, I felt she was having a great time and was asking me great questions about my person. How am I in relationships, my goals, family plans etc.
her going out with me again, does that show some interest? I mean the reason I want to text, talk, go out with her is to get to know her (how else would i)
one friend told me that she just might be a busy person and that her even texting back means something. and that i should over think it.
another friend said that a female that is interested would text or call (which she did not initiate)
any input?
im new to dating. im so lost its not even funny
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