Quick Back-story..
* Together for a LOOOONG time.
* Both mid to late 30's
* Crazy sex life in teens, she was a freak and really wanted crazy sex.
* BC for her and it died.
* Married for many years with nothing more than every 2-3 weeks of "get by" sex. I rubbed them out in the shower pretty regular. At one point she may have had an affair (She claims no but at the very least there was some connection with a guy).
* Two kids later (young kids, in our 30's) I get snipped, she quits the bc.
A few months later this ravenous woman shows up in my bed. Keep in mind, this is a complete 180. For a short stint every month she is all kinds of freak. We have always done a little more "taboo" stuff (light bondage, anal, spanking, porn, toys, etc.) but nothing like adding a 3rd, public sex, etc. This all changed and before long I had her in an alley pounding her from behind because she couldn't make it home.
Now she has a CRAZY hunger those few days a month. We have talked about adding a woman (I will not touch the other woman in this FANTASY, but get to be there, play and watch). She really, really likes the idea of DP (again, fantasy... will almost certainly never happen), we watch gang bang porn, and her most recent conquest is deep throating and throat-f8king. She also knows we are pretty good at sex and talked about filming it and letting someone watch it or watch us for confirmation that we are good! The rest of the month she could care less if I am even in the house but for those 4-10 days we get our serious freak on.
All is well and good, right? .....not exactly....
I have since been diagnosed with Low T (stress and enlarged liver). I am on the shot a few times a month but with one shot a month it was only 252 and should be in the high 500's. The dosage has since been upped but it hasn't been long enough to know if it is going to help.
Here is the problem.... during this stint every month we have sex sometimes several times a day. The most recently was 4 times in one day.... I'm 38 and not in the shape I used to be in! We also don't have sex for 15 minutes, we are long haulers and will have sex for at minimum an hour or so. Regular sex can last 1.5 – 2 hours and does so pretty regular. And now, due to my low T, I really could care less and sometimes would rather just go to sleep. Don't get me wrong, I'm still all in. I went too many years with nothing meaningful sexually. I turned down advances from other women (honestly), etc. I am not passing this up. Besides, after a few days the switch goes off and she could care less for another few weeks.
Regardless, this is all VERY confusing. We lived with her saying no for literally about 16 years, and now she is fully fledged wants to do it all and I could give a crap less and would rather sleep. I'm actually leading my libido with my mental desire more so than my erection...
WTH.... Anyone else deal with this stuff? Sounds too good to be true but this is an honest to God situation.
* Together for a LOOOONG time.
* Both mid to late 30's
* Crazy sex life in teens, she was a freak and really wanted crazy sex.
* BC for her and it died.
* Married for many years with nothing more than every 2-3 weeks of "get by" sex. I rubbed them out in the shower pretty regular. At one point she may have had an affair (She claims no but at the very least there was some connection with a guy).
* Two kids later (young kids, in our 30's) I get snipped, she quits the bc.
A few months later this ravenous woman shows up in my bed. Keep in mind, this is a complete 180. For a short stint every month she is all kinds of freak. We have always done a little more "taboo" stuff (light bondage, anal, spanking, porn, toys, etc.) but nothing like adding a 3rd, public sex, etc. This all changed and before long I had her in an alley pounding her from behind because she couldn't make it home.
Now she has a CRAZY hunger those few days a month. We have talked about adding a woman (I will not touch the other woman in this FANTASY, but get to be there, play and watch). She really, really likes the idea of DP (again, fantasy... will almost certainly never happen), we watch gang bang porn, and her most recent conquest is deep throating and throat-f8king. She also knows we are pretty good at sex and talked about filming it and letting someone watch it or watch us for confirmation that we are good! The rest of the month she could care less if I am even in the house but for those 4-10 days we get our serious freak on.
All is well and good, right? .....not exactly....
I have since been diagnosed with Low T (stress and enlarged liver). I am on the shot a few times a month but with one shot a month it was only 252 and should be in the high 500's. The dosage has since been upped but it hasn't been long enough to know if it is going to help.
Here is the problem.... during this stint every month we have sex sometimes several times a day. The most recently was 4 times in one day.... I'm 38 and not in the shape I used to be in! We also don't have sex for 15 minutes, we are long haulers and will have sex for at minimum an hour or so. Regular sex can last 1.5 – 2 hours and does so pretty regular. And now, due to my low T, I really could care less and sometimes would rather just go to sleep. Don't get me wrong, I'm still all in. I went too many years with nothing meaningful sexually. I turned down advances from other women (honestly), etc. I am not passing this up. Besides, after a few days the switch goes off and she could care less for another few weeks.
Regardless, this is all VERY confusing. We lived with her saying no for literally about 16 years, and now she is fully fledged wants to do it all and I could give a crap less and would rather sleep. I'm actually leading my libido with my mental desire more so than my erection...
WTH.... Anyone else deal with this stuff? Sounds too good to be true but this is an honest to God situation.
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