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Back at Halloween I met this girl at a party and we hit it off straight away. She added me on facebook and before I knew it we had become quite good friends, since Halloween she has come up to the the city I live in as Im at uni for music events etc and this has allowed us to spend more time together which again has gone really well. However up until around the end of November she was also seeing another guy which has now stopped and she has said she didnt know what she was doing with him because they both knew it wouldnt work etc.
She came up for NYE and we ended up getting with each other on multiple occasions on the night and she stayed two extra nights with me. Following on from NYE, on Friday we arranged for me to go and meet her mum and then go out for the evening with another couple that we know, she then stayed at my family home and also met my family. Since Friday though I have not spoke to her for the simple reason is that I dont know whats going on between me and her.
Some points worth mentioning however is that since NYE, we spend hours on the phone talking and talking on facebook etc. She has also brought up sex and was telling me what she likes and what I like. She got into a little bit of a mood a few days back as she said her first impression of her to me was not a good one, Also like Ive said she wanted me to meet her parents and she wanted to meet mine, theres also other things that have happened that indicates to me that she does like me and wants to be more than friends.
On the other hand the reason I question this is because all the times we have slept in the same bed we have come nowhere near to getting intimate although I have been reluctant to try as I'm not sure how she feels. On top of that I seem to be kissing her less again because Im not sure how she feels. And lastly since Saturday morning when she went home I haven't spoke to her.
Thoughts and opinions on this?
What should I do? As I really really do like this girl.
Thank you
Back at Halloween I met this girl at a party and we hit it off straight away. She added me on facebook and before I knew it we had become quite good friends, since Halloween she has come up to the the city I live in as Im at uni for music events etc and this has allowed us to spend more time together which again has gone really well. However up until around the end of November she was also seeing another guy which has now stopped and she has said she didnt know what she was doing with him because they both knew it wouldnt work etc.
She came up for NYE and we ended up getting with each other on multiple occasions on the night and she stayed two extra nights with me. Following on from NYE, on Friday we arranged for me to go and meet her mum and then go out for the evening with another couple that we know, she then stayed at my family home and also met my family. Since Friday though I have not spoke to her for the simple reason is that I dont know whats going on between me and her.
Some points worth mentioning however is that since NYE, we spend hours on the phone talking and talking on facebook etc. She has also brought up sex and was telling me what she likes and what I like. She got into a little bit of a mood a few days back as she said her first impression of her to me was not a good one, Also like Ive said she wanted me to meet her parents and she wanted to meet mine, theres also other things that have happened that indicates to me that she does like me and wants to be more than friends.
On the other hand the reason I question this is because all the times we have slept in the same bed we have come nowhere near to getting intimate although I have been reluctant to try as I'm not sure how she feels. On top of that I seem to be kissing her less again because Im not sure how she feels. And lastly since Saturday morning when she went home I haven't spoke to her.
Thoughts and opinions on this?
What should I do? As I really really do like this girl.
Thank you
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