I have been seeing a girl for roughly a month now, who I met whilst she was on her Christmas break from Uni. We aren't technically going out, but seeing each other, and giving it some time to see if a long distance relationship is feasible before making things official. We are about 4 hours apart, and I see her every fortnight. I really like this girl, she's the first girl I've met since my big break up who I actually can envisage a relationship with.
Was out on Saturday night at a mate's gig, and a girl who I've known for a while came and joined our group. From that point onwards she was all over me all night, to the point where she was dragging me onto a sofa in a club asking me to sleep with her etc. It really started to bug me and I had to explain I'm seeing somebody that I actually really like. This really didn't dissuade her at all, and she was stuck to my side all night. From this point onwards I have proceeded to get blind drunk and blacked out, and wake up in the morning completely unaware of what happened once I left the club. I have a missed call from the bird, who I ring back and she basically explains that I kissed her at the end of the night.
I have absolutely no recollection of kissing her, but my mate has verified that I did kiss her. I feel absolutely awful. It's right at the forefront of my mind and I feel so guilty, but I'm so reluctant to tell the girl I'm seeing about the kiss because I don't want to lose her, or tarnish a future relationship with trust issues...I know 100% that it won't happen again, I'm just not sure whether it's morally right to hide the truth from a girl that I genuinely like.
Any advice?
Was out on Saturday night at a mate's gig, and a girl who I've known for a while came and joined our group. From that point onwards she was all over me all night, to the point where she was dragging me onto a sofa in a club asking me to sleep with her etc. It really started to bug me and I had to explain I'm seeing somebody that I actually really like. This really didn't dissuade her at all, and she was stuck to my side all night. From this point onwards I have proceeded to get blind drunk and blacked out, and wake up in the morning completely unaware of what happened once I left the club. I have a missed call from the bird, who I ring back and she basically explains that I kissed her at the end of the night.
I have absolutely no recollection of kissing her, but my mate has verified that I did kiss her. I feel absolutely awful. It's right at the forefront of my mind and I feel so guilty, but I'm so reluctant to tell the girl I'm seeing about the kiss because I don't want to lose her, or tarnish a future relationship with trust issues...I know 100% that it won't happen again, I'm just not sure whether it's morally right to hide the truth from a girl that I genuinely like.
Any advice?
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